NPR 600 word story entry 1

Some people swore that the house was haunted. We never believed it but we were happy to let others think so.

The house’s appearance helped. It was right out of the props department of a movie studio. A tall, narrow, wooden house with shutters hanging by a corner, swinging and slamming in the slightest breeze, slats missing, standing alone on a treeless hill at the end of a street. Rotten steps leading to a front door that was missing most of its paint. Broken windows, loose trim, odd sounds and smells. Some said there had been trees near it at at one time but they got scared away.

OK. Not all of that was done by supernatural forces. Unless you count teenage boys and girls. The windows were broken as far back as I remember. And the strange smells could be from garbage — or worse — thrown through those windows. We never figured out where the sounds came from but we never looked that hard. No one I knew ever went into the old place.

The history of the old place went back a few generations, with the usual story of well-heeled gentry building a house to match their status followed by the family slowly slipping down the ladder of respectability. Throw in a few cases of madness and it’s a cliched pulp novel. But this family didn’t dwindle into obscurity. They just vanished. They had been seen out and about in the town one day, with dinner and some shopping in the evening, and the next day they disappeared. No wagon came for them, their own carriages and horses stood waiting. The servants came to an empty house that morning but never returned, not even to collect their wages.

There it stood for years, decades even, brooding and deteriorating on its empty hillside, its only companions bats, pigeons, stray cats, bored teenagers.

Then one day a car drove up to the old house, an old car no one could recall seeing or even identify, long, black, curved, with wire wheels. It drove slowly through the town, whining in the wrong gear as it were being punished for wanting to go faster, and turned down the road to the house. We followed as closely as we dared, on foot, on bicycles, wondering what this was about.

We waited at the end of the drive, sitting, squatting, hiding behind our bicycles and each other. The car lurched to a halt and backfired, so loud we could hear it echo. The driver got out, so tall he unfolded as he came, and turned to open the rear door. After a pause, he closed it again, straightened his coat, and walked up the steps, his hands folded behind his back. The front door opened as he was halfway up the stairs and he walked in, closing it behind him.

Half the watchers left, as fast as they could go, mumbling to themselves and waving away things only they could see.As the rest of us watched, the house seemed to shimmer and blur ever so slightly, and as we looked it got straighter, taller, less slumped. Windows were opened and were once again windows with unbroken glass. Lamps were lit, and loud thumps and deep vibrating hums came from the earth under and around the house.

When we saw the trees slowly walking across the hillside, slumped as if in shame at their faithlessness, we all backed up slowly and made our way back to town, never once turning our backs on the house.

Nothing was ever the same again after that.

The drugs we really need wouldn’t make us high, rather reliably connect us with whom we already are at our best.

Alain de Botton (@alaindebotton)

the conscience of a public school parent

Talking with a parent whose kids went to preschool with ours and found her kids are moving out of a high-quality Catholic school to one of the premier private schools: she urged me to get ours assessed with the ISEE exam. Her oldest says he is being challenged for the first time, after spending elementary school in a well-regarded Montessori program and then Catholic school for middle school. Hmmm. 

If they did well on the assessment, would we abandon public school? Assuming we could afford it, with financial aid etc., would we do it? 

The advantages:

  • High academic rigor
  • High expectations (college prep, professional careers)
  • Contacts. Steve Ballmer didn’t get to run MSFT based on his personal charm or good looks

The negatives:

  • Expensive
  • Insular: private school goes against a lot of what I believe in. I don’t want my kids exposed to a country club atmosphere or hanging with kids who feel entitled
  • Am I wrong to be more concerned about the social dynamics of a rich school than a good middle class public school? Popular fiction notwithstanding, I’d have to think about it. 

I think the assessment might be as far as this goes. Though I wouldn’t be at all surprised if the scores are shared with the schools and if they’re good, that we hear from them. Oh, well, better to be asked than ignored. 

More numbers

I wonder:

  • How many school-age kids regularly see a parent or role model reading, be it Rolling Stone, Sports Illustrated, the NYTimes or the PennySaver  
  • How many books kids have at home
  • How many cable channels kids know by name and number 
  • If children watch TV or listen to the radio with adults 
  • If they are read to, even if they can read already

Modeling the behavior we want to see is so important. 

Another video and talk from Sir Ken Robinson on the need to change pretty much everything about education. The agrarian schedule and industrial management techniques are outmoded and do more harm than good. 

He gets off track pretty badly when he rails against ADHD meds, not realizing that they are not sedatives and do not desensitize the kids who take them: they’re stimulants. If they work, if they allow the person taking them to have better control of their brain’s executive function, to prioritize and manage themselves, they need them. If they make a kid (or adult) wiggly, they don’t need ‘em. What he should complain about is the overuse of adult-strength anti-psychotics and other behavior modifiers: those are dangerous. And their overuse is directly related to poor training, zealous marketing, and under-resourced school health departments and social services. 

anonymity

So why aren’t there any names or places mentioned here? Are you famililar with the term “dooced?

Not that I plan to go on the rampage but one can never tell what someone else will find critical or offensive. Freedom of speech is a core American value but protecting/defending it can be a lot of work.

So in the tradition of many anonymous contributors, I’d rather these words stand on their own with no way to infer any additional meaning from the author’s personal situation or characteristics.

Accountability

In the wake of the midterm elections, how long do we wait for the new leadership to fix everything they think Obama has neglected?

The new session will begin in January 2011. I say we give them til April 15 (a date that reminds us that we own a piece of this enterprise). If we don’t like what we see, we start writing letters, emailing, and calling these public servants to find out what the hold-up is. Where are the jobs? Why is the deficit still so high?

They claim to have the answers: let’s find out.